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Between College & University

People primarily attend colleges or university to increase their knowledge and for career preparation. Moreover, we seek to have a better social position by earning a higher degree in a particular field of study.

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In the past, society is emphasising the importance of the degree because of its validity and benchmark among the candidates; which shall result in the unfair comparison between the college and university degree. However, it was the story of yesterday, and with the new perspective from current society, we now have a proper judgement on “what makes a good education?” rather than which school do we have to choose.

We go to college or university is because it’s the most common way of learning adequate knowledge, plus experience from our lectures. The core value of studying is to see the relationship between theory and practice. Unfortunately, we occasionally see the experience side due to the outweigh of knowledge. The act of learning in school will result in the vague future of not knowing what or how to define oneself value and even a proper career path with skills needed.

Some of us shall pursuit the learning path to enhance and find a connection between practice and data to perceive a better understanding of translating those items into information. It’s also a borderline to determine us as a moving-forward person or just an ordinary employee who’s always satisfied with where and who we are.

In conclusion, no matter where we perceive a higher education with the college or university, but it’s the needs of a better society recognition, a suitable managerial position with valuable insight and experience.

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Preparing Food

Nowadays food has become easier to prepare. And this change improved the way people live.

For decades, people have learned how to cook and prepare their meal in many different ways. But not until recently, food had become much more accessible to make and with the evaluation concerning cooking proportion and balancing the nutrition from each portion, it improves the way of living. In this note, I would love to share two effects on preparing food at this moment is better than in the past.

Most of the time we shall find ourselves struggling with the question of how can we prepare the meal that fit into my schedule? What can we eat for today that doesn’t take us lots of time to make? Moreover, it’s getting harder if we have a family to take care. Thanks to the technology that provides for us a simple way of managing our cooking process, we can now save more time and use them for family activities instead of running around in the kitchen to ensure the meal is ready. We can have the support from the machine and suitable tools to save more time rather than doing all the things by our hands in the past.

So, the first improvement in people’s life is time management, more quality time with family and self-improvement. Furthermore, with the evaluation of a recipe from talent chef around the World, people can be confident about the food quality, too. By making it more accessible isn’t always results in bad taste and insufficient nutrition, our meal plan is now the balance between the protein, fat & carbs and others, because of the new generation of recipe that aims for better health in this modern society. Either it can serve the purpose of gaining mass or a lean body with a low-fat percentage. We can quickly prepare that food by following the provided formula which can be found on the Internet. If we can see a good proportion of food to eat, beverage to drink, then our health will be improved over time.

People wished to have a better life by looking for different things, and one of them is preparing food easier but still have an exceptional quality. By ensuring the quality of time management in our lives and food quality for self-improvement, people can enhance both physically and mentality.

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A Man and A Boy

It is not difficult to recognize the signs of a whether he just wanted to take advantage of your affection for his own purposes or as a man know your interest. To help you recognize your man, I have something to share with you.

  1. Your man will bring good things for you. A bad guy will only make you mad all day.

2.A promise is a promise, your man will do it because deep down inside his heart, he is willing to do it

  1. Your man will see your success is the pride of all him, let you feel comfortable and confident with your decision, and glad that you can stand on your own feet. Please don’t think bad about this case ’cause some of you might think gals are always weak and need a helping hand. Please don’t feel that way, you are amazing and beautiful in many ways, strong more than any man and wise enough to make any decision.

  2. Your man thinks you’re the most beautiful woman in his eyes. Bad guys with wandering eyes on the body of any other girl. I think somehow it be incorrect because it is a mixture from having “the one” in man’s heart and looking at different woman, I don’t have any sense of looking at girls passing by the streets since I only think about my girl, lovely animals. That’s it! So with this point, I have no argument so far.

  3. More or less, you will see that every day with your man will always be special and full of love; from morning message to a bouquet of flowers or just a song through your voice mail.

  4. Your man will sometimes be very talkative whenever with you but still, by the time you start to talk and make conversation, there is nothing could him more interesting than your voice and story.

  5. Your man will always gives you a sense of security and protection. The man is very good at making you jealous bad infuriating and always wanted to check his phone (of course, never touched the phone he was then). A good man is not just only big, muscle or 6 pack and loads of money, the think about this “security” and “protection” is the time when your man can make a decision and think far more than just for himself or recklessly do something just because you like it. In short, think before he acts and think again about his action toward something.

  6. His family, yup, he always want to introduce you to all the friends and relatives of his. Bad guys to hide everything, you did not even know where his house, he only knew to head in the same alley.

  7. There is more than just taking care of you,  your man will have this sense when be with you, the feeling of taking care his precious one, enjoyed both small care for you. The man does not even bad for your care about.


10. It is quite common for me to do this: text my girl and ask whether she got home safe or not, I am not telling you that I am a model or something but I believe that this act from mine is not controlling or things like that but to calm down my feeling since there are lots of things could happen on the road. A text from this situation could make you think “why he’s always asking the same question for days?” but please, it is just to confirm with our minds that you are back home safely.

So in the end, good luck with your journey and one more thing, don’t find your man, let him find you and prove that he’s worth for your care and love.

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How Childhood Experiences Can Shape People In Different Ways

It is really impressive of how these pictures can show me the way I am now. Sometimes it is hard to describe my inner feelings, this will help me a lot in any way. Thank you for sharing. One of the most important thing that I’ve learnt from these pictures is how me and my beloved one can stay together in harmony.

Source: Lifehack

They perceive the world through different lens…Childhood images.001

The approaches they use to interact with others…Childhood images.002

How they are perceived differently in other people’s eyes…Childhood images.003

When they are in the workplace…Childhood images.004

In their free time…Childhood images.006

When they are in a relationship…Childhood images.007

Their life missions…Childhood images.005

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Emotional stories documenting the last day of a best friend in our lives

There will be so much things to think after you read these lines, first of all, I want to apologize since I don’t have the original link or post from the author. So, if you can find or happen to see the original post, just tell me and I will add it up to my post as a ref. Thank you!

Animals or not, for me they are the same with us, full of emotion and love. I know that in Vietnam and Korean or Thailand, we are having a bad culture of eating dog meat…for me, this is a crime and need to be stopped. In this post, we will see many beautiful moment between this owner and her dog. So much things to say….so much tears…you may think I am immature and just cry like a baby, that will be okay because through all the stories, I can feel the pain and the desire of holding time for not let her dog away from her and family.

Snapchat stories documenting the last day of a dying Dog turns everyone into a bucket of emotions

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What Is Love and Missing Each Other?

Recently, the sky in my city is turn  into something quite sad with its heavy rain. People is starting to rush toward their home, but at the end of the day, we are stuck in the middle of traffic jam. There is no way back and completely fill up with people on every street. So I head to my girl’s home, which is not far much from my location. The only thing that stuck in my head for this whole evening is my girl, since I have no idea whether she’s back or not, yet I wanna make sure that everything is okay for her. People might say that it is crazy and waste of time because I should go home and let my girl take care of her life, but guess what, I couldn’t do it and there is no particular reason for me to say no to her.

There was a time that I believed there will be no way I could fall in love and feel so fragile , so vulnerable again. But then, life is always full of surprises because those things come to me once again between me and my babe. I know this bloody feeling run through my spine and rush my heart beat by any seconds whenever I say goodbye to her. I always hate that moment, the moment when I have to say goodbye to her and give a big hug, so afraid of losing everything in this love.

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I did asked about her feeling if I love her like this…does she feel anything like uncomfortable or stuff like that. Her smiles and kiss on my lips were her answers…”there will be no love like yours, I love everything from you and anything that you did for us”

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Singapore Trip (Part 1)

After 3 years of leaving Singapore, I returned to Vietnam and push myself so hard to prove that I am capable of doing things in any job that I can enroll in. It seems like my 2nd new-beloved family was giving another chance of returning to this beautiful place, where I have learnt everything that I need to be standout and be able to live by myself.


During my internship program, I did quite a good job on handling the tasks and developing my own skills into another new level, but then, all of the sudden that came out of nowhere, my bosses called my over into the meeting room and asked me “How do you feel about this job?” I thought that it is normal to raise that question before my period is going to an end soon enough. My heart was raced a little bit but it was outta control since they called another 3 staffs inside the room, then this happened: We knew that our Company’s Trip in Da Lat last time was a cool experience, but this time, we will go to somewhere else, over the sea.


So we had to guess what was that place, all of our thoughts were about Con Dao, Phu Quoc and stuff like that, the answer was a “No”, then by the time I think about that place, our bosses said it would be Singapore. And the reasons why were we had to learn and see how we can change our ways of working together, how do we feel about push ourselves out of the comfort zone and take real closer look besides of pictures, films about Singapore. This was an opportunity for all of members from my company to see the most beautiful and advanced country by the name of “Dragon of the Southeast Asia”.

Therefore, everybody in that room on the day, we were selected as members who were going to organize this trip from the very first step until the end of it. You wanna know my true feeling? Of course, happy and worry and way much more than that. How do you plan to take all of these people to Singapore without leaving anyone behind? Furthermore, more than half of the company is never ever step outside of Vietnam before, which means that they are having no passport, and really then, we ONLY have 1 MONTH to prepare everything.

Looking for my experience of organizing things, along with my feelings? Wait and see, maybe it will not be so great or magnificent like yours, but hey, this is my VERY FIRST experience of how to organize a trip to another country for 20 people and more. Please note that, you can always ask me question in comments below, then I will try to answer it with my story.

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Be Happy Be Yourself Be Responsible

Some people say that love is hard and harsh sometimes, happiness and relationship are like something out of the blue and drive people crazy about it, make them feel up and down all the time. But then, what would you gonna do about it? Run away or accept the way it is? Neither of them will depends on your decision, but for now, I will put down some notes for my own and maybe this time with these notes, you can find something useful for yourself and your partner too.

To Become Happy & Earn Some Respect: Be Responsible

That’s right! Something that you will find it funny and nothing relate to happiness but then, think about when is the last time you decide and take action on something? How do you feel about it when everything’s finished by your own thoughts and steps? Every first step might be hard for you, of course, but don’t let this stop you from becoming someone who is willing to step forward, look into things and decide what to do about it rather than sit back and relax, wait for it to be ended by someone else.

It is good to chill out and we will find it really happy at first…then people will start to look at us with a disappointed eye or worst, because they know that somehow we are not interesting in anything, or willing to do anything. The relationship will getting worse from time, and we start to notice that no one will like to talk or share things to us. Don’t let this happen, one day we will sing “Lonely! I’m Mr. Lonely! I have no body!”

Live in the Moment

Every moment is fleeting, and our time on this earth is short. Everything that we experience is only temporary; nothing lasts forever. Be focus on what you are doing, and what you can do to enhance the situation to workout in your favor. Getting comfortable during times of peace isn’t a suitable practice. Letting your motivation down won’t bring any good for you later on. Always upholding the beauty of every moment, and build for the future today, your own future and be responsible with every single steps you have made.