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How Childhood Experiences Can Shape People In Different Ways

It is really impressive of how these pictures can show me the way I am now. Sometimes it is hard to describe my inner feelings, this will help me a lot in any way. Thank you for sharing. One of the most important thing that I’ve learnt from these pictures is how me and my beloved one can stay together in harmony.

Source: Lifehack

They perceive the world through different lens…Childhood images.001

The approaches they use to interact with others…Childhood images.002

How they are perceived differently in other people’s eyes…Childhood images.003

When they are in the workplace…Childhood images.004

In their free time…Childhood images.006

When they are in a relationship…Childhood images.007

Their life missions…Childhood images.005

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Emotional stories documenting the last day of a best friend in our lives

There will be so much things to think after you read these lines, first of all, I want to apologize since I don’t have the original link or post from the author. So, if you can find or happen to see the original post, just tell me and I will add it up to my post as a ref. Thank you!

Animals or not, for me they are the same with us, full of emotion and love. I know that in Vietnam and Korean or Thailand, we are having a bad culture of eating dog meat…for me, this is a crime and need to be stopped. In this post, we will see many beautiful moment between this owner and her dog. So much things to say….so much tears…you may think I am immature and just cry like a baby, that will be okay because through all the stories, I can feel the pain and the desire of holding time for not let her dog away from her and family.

Snapchat stories documenting the last day of a dying Dog turns everyone into a bucket of emotions

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What Is Love and Missing Each Other?

Recently, the sky in my city is turn  into something quite sad with its heavy rain. People is starting to rush toward their home, but at the end of the day, we are stuck in the middle of traffic jam. There is no way back and completely fill up with people on every street. So I head to my girl’s home, which is not far much from my location. The only thing that stuck in my head for this whole evening is my girl, since I have no idea whether she’s back or not, yet I wanna make sure that everything is okay for her. People might say that it is crazy and waste of time because I should go home and let my girl take care of her life, but guess what, I couldn’t do it and there is no particular reason for me to say no to her.

There was a time that I believed there will be no way I could fall in love and feel so fragile , so vulnerable again. But then, life is always full of surprises because those things come to me once again between me and my babe. I know this bloody feeling run through my spine and rush my heart beat by any seconds whenever I say goodbye to her. I always hate that moment, the moment when I have to say goodbye to her and give a big hug, so afraid of losing everything in this love.

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I did asked about her feeling if I love her like this…does she feel anything like uncomfortable or stuff like that. Her smiles and kiss on my lips were her answers…”there will be no love like yours, I love everything from you and anything that you did for us”

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1 year anniversary

There is no word that can describe our feeling during last night, people say that 1 year is not long and not much memories of being together. But for us, we went through a lot of things, learnt from each other of how love can be expressed in many different ways.

For my very first time, looking for a place to have a sweet anniversary is not easy since I have never done it before. Then suddenly SI Restaurant’s Facebook ads appeared, after a 2 days’ long check from both its website and rating site from others, I decided to book this beautiful place before our anniversary 2 months, since I really don’t want to lose the opportunity to have a fine dinner with my beloved at all.

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My impression about this place is the decoration as you can see above, lovely and green, which is a big plus for us because we really do care about the environment and healthy life, so with this design, we felt so fresh and new. But that was not over yet, since this beautiful scene brought some memories of us back to the time when we first met each other, the feeling of peace and need each other in our life.13709875_878734925604659_6045612826989469076_n.jpg

Telling you the truth that it was hard for me to held a pen and wrote down calligraphy after a long time of only using computer. But finally, I could be able to put myself and feelings inside this lift anniversary card for her, quite a strange feeling because I never, ever wrote something like this under any special event, until now.13728951_878734932271325_653834934626690476_n.jpg

Here it is, our dinner with this cozy place, private and adorable. We spent quality time with each other, talked about how we felt for each other and how much we glad that we found love in ourselves. Sometimes, love is hard to explain and find it, but when the time come, just let it be and embrace each other until the time is through, no matter what will come. Love is now, for every moment, live and enjoy it as much as you can.

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9 Signs She Is the One You Should Marry

LOVE IS WHEN

Recently, I received quite a lot of wedding cards from my friends and for a second I think of myself: Wow! Is this the time of getting marriage? Am I ready for it? So many questions which are flying around my head and finally, I come up with a new thing to write about: how do you know that your better-half would be the one for you?

1. Intellectually challenging

On the off chance that you need to spend whatever is left of your existence with somebody, it is vital that you find that individual mentally difficult. Looks are passing yet identity is always—your discussions together ought to intrigue, smart and loaded with profundity. Your accomplice ought to have the capacity to challenge your assessments, opening up your brain to new thoughts and ideas.

2. Reliability in emotion

In the event that you battle to foresee your accomplice’s state of mind and reactions, you may wind up conveying the weight of your accomplice’s mind-sets. Your accomplice shouldn’t change into a more troublesome individual following a couple of months together; they ought to be completely fair about their sentiments and enthusiastic state.

3. Empathizer

When you want to marry somebody, you ought to ensure they can demonstrate sympathy people’s situation, including yours. You will have down days and you will feel upset, and your accomplice ought to have the capacity to bolster you and identify with you amid these circumstances.

4. Honesty

Honesty is an imperative attribute in a long haul relationship; in the event that you can’t believe your accomplice, by what method would you be able to let them know anything in certainty, or think anything they said to you? Discover somebody who regards you enough frankly with you, not with standing when it is troublesome for them.

5. Ambitious.

And also supporting your fantasies and objectives, the lady you wed ought to have her own particular dreams and aspirations, as well. She will look to her future consistently and plan how to enhance her life, instead of relying upon you for a decent and satisfying life.

6. Self-improve.

And additionally being eager, your life accomplice ought to be put resources into enhancing herself. From watching documentaries to voyaging, she ought to appreciate enhancing her perspective and putting resources into herself. This implies she is more averse to be excessively subject to you, as she is similarly reliant on herself.

7. Being petty or jealous

Some enviously is normal seeing someone, however, the lady you marry ought to be sufficiently secure in herself and you to know she doesn’t have to feel desirous. This is an additionally to do with trust; she ought to have the capacity to trust you enough to give you your opportunity.

8. Making an effort

A sound, stable relationship concentrates on giving as opposed to taking. Seeing your life partner upbeat ought to make you generally as cheerful, and she ought to treat you similarly. Your euphoria ought to be her bliss, as well—it can be as straightforward as getting some information about your day or taking care of you when you are wiped out. Over the long haul, the fervor toward the start of the relationship will pass, however, you ought to both be general as centered around giving each different bliss.

9. You are you

Appreciating your accomplice and their disposition ought to rouse you to be a superior adaptation of yourself. From setting off to the exercise center to volunteering at a philanthropy, you ought to need to be the best form of yourself for her—and yourself.

What did you think of this list? Share with your friends and family to find out if they have found the woman they should marry!

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[After Work] 11 Things That Will Make You Success

Achievement is not something effortlessly accomplished, and you can’t anticipate that it will occur incidentally. It requires a specific mentality, determination, and obviously diligent work. Basically needing to succeed is insufficient. It is additionally worth specifying that you ought to begin taking a shot at your prosperity as quickly as time permits.

The perfect day and age for your vocation advancement ought to be after you graduate, while you are in your twenties. You are still lively, loaded with positive vitality, and you have a great deal of time staring you in the face, to try, gain from your slip-ups, and collect a specific measurement of experience. Frankly, individuals may not consider you important while you are still youthful, however, there are a few things that one should do before the age of thirty. Along these lines, you can make a strong premise and pick up the profitable understanding fundamental for the prosperity of your future.

  1. Learn how to handle your cash/ balance sheet or finance.
  2. Learn from failure and overcome bad attitude.
  3. Challenge the rules, terms and regulation so that you can freely design and do things you like but still know the limitation.
  4. Know how to organize stuff around you, starting with your bed and working desk than more.
  5. Keep relationships and understand why you need that as much as they bring benefit and good stuff to you.
  6. Persistent is good  but just don’t over-do it or you will receive negative feedback because people will think this is stubborn.
  7. Good is something that people always want, but do put your mind about the flaws.
  8. Don’t be scared of comments around you because of calculating and resourceful, think about it because this will save you more than once in your life.
  9. Adaptation is crucial, as long as you can adapt to the environment, there is nothing can make you feel uncomfortable. The quick is the better.
  10. Do come around and ask for other’s opinion, we are good at judgement somehow but still not good by standing alone, plus, it will stress you more since there is only one of you to solve many problems out there.

These are the things that I have done so far to keep my life healthy and change myself from minor things to major. If there is something more, please add-on my list and make it work for you.

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[Music] When We Happy Then We Listen

I had a thought, running through my head
Now you’re gone, I don’t remember it
I had the life, and then I see you
Now our love is all see through
Refrain

Oh, no worries, no worries, no worries now,
Cuz loves just comes and goes
No worries, no worries,
I’ll swear like a sailor, sailor from my bad behavior

Chorus:
And If you come and go it won’t matter anymore, it won’t matter anymore, no
And if you can’t stay slow, I’ll be waiting at the door, I’ll be waiting at the door
And If you come and go it won’t matter anymore, it won’t matter anymore, no
And if you can’t stay slow, I’ll swear like a sailor, sailor from my bad behavior

I have a lover back in England
She’s a star, she’s like Taylor Swift
I come home, don’t remember it
Cuz She’s gone, she don’t exist

Each of us will have more than one favorite song, some sad and some happy but each of them will connect to your memories. When you are happy, you will dance with it and enjoy the rhythm but when you are blue, lyrics and words are things which you will most understand and feel.

Love and relationship will always our most beautiful time of being with someone, also teach us a lot even though we may not end up in happy ever and after so, therefore, we live and learn how to move on with each new day and new YOU. I am now lucky and full of life because of the one beside me everyday beside my family, showing we how to love, how to share and how to pick up myself when everytime I hit the ground. Kindness is always something hidden inside of me, so afraid to let people know this weakness and try to manipulate it  by the time they see me, but my girl told me that it is okay to be manipulated sometimes because I already knew it so let’s call it a different things: Help or give them a hand.

There was time that I won’t believe in love or sweet things because it was ridiculous, so many broken hearts and chances that show me why love is bad for your health, then she comes in my life with her very first love, gentle smile and kind heart that I can ever imagine and there was one time that I had to ask her like why she always smile and happy about it? Hardly see you under gloomy day and the list went on, every answer are come up to the final one: because love and relationship are the most important to life, no matter how hard it is, we have to try harder and make it possible with all you got.

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[Story of My Life] 4 Questions That Change My Life & Now Is Your Turn

Living in the Wolrd of technologies and rich data from every corner of my life, the most important thing that I always do is to research and keep up-to-date myself. How can I do it daily is another thing to concern about, but rather than focusing on my result, I will give you hints to change from your first day. It is quite strange that people keep asking less than the day they were born into this World because we feel not okay to ask somebody about something, somehow this form the biggest barrier from us to wisdom.

There are so many questions and answers that will surprise you but here, you will find something that let you discover yourself, and each question would let you come to most viable decision that you might not ever think about it, questions that change my life with big decision that nobody can tell me what to do because I know that I can trust myself and my skills, so do you.

  1. Who are you?” is a very difficult question to answer and you will feel uncomfortable to talk about it, then change to this “What are the characteristics that made you?
  2. What are the things that you like and hate from others and from you?
  3. Do you like to teach or mentor? So ask yourself “Do I enjoy this stuff?
  4. What did you learn from your very best moment and worst moment (even in love and don’t try to hide from it)

Get your paper or whiteboard, write your characteristics down from the worst to the best (do try to ask from other people too since you will not see some hidden characteristic because this shall require some special environment).

Every piece of you is unique and those answers on your paper or whiteboard will help you improve a lot and don’t be afraid to know yourself, accept and live with it, you don’t want to live in the World of having love from everybody.

 

 

 

 

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[Story of My Life] 3 Activities for Making Your Day

There will be more than 3 activities from other people but with me, I will just focus on how to make myself feel better whenever I wake up from my bed and prepare to do something. Sometimes, it would be strange for us to wake up and feel so empty, there is no reason or particular activity AT ALL that can drag you off the bed and so on, but don’t be so blue about it because everyone does the same thing once in their life too. So it would be my pleasure to show you 5 quotes that will generate a better energy, eventhough just a single thought.

  1. Cleaning Your Room
  2. Looking at your photo galerry
  3. Having breakfast or brunch at somewhere new

Of course, it is quite simple and might not be agreed by you or the majority, but I really do find myself of thinking more and try to do something else beside sit on my bed or sofa all day, the logic is simple: if you can move your body in some ways, your mind will start to think and connect what you are doing with others (such as cleaning can relate to music and then after cleaning you will think of playing guitar or listening to some more music and even share this piece of music with other friends, the list go on)

Those activities above are visual related, which connect somehow to your daily activity and during your down mood season, a new point of view will help you see new thing that normal you don’t.

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