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How Childhood Experiences Can Shape People In Different Ways

It is really impressive of how these pictures can show me the way I am now. Sometimes it is hard to describe my inner feelings, this will help me a lot in any way. Thank you for sharing. One of the most important thing that I’ve learnt from these pictures is how me and my beloved one can stay together in harmony.

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They perceive the world through different lens…Childhood images.001

The approaches they use to interact with others…Childhood images.002

How they are perceived differently in other people’s eyes…Childhood images.003

When they are in the workplace…Childhood images.004

In their free time…Childhood images.006

When they are in a relationship…Childhood images.007

Their life missions…Childhood images.005

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Emotional stories documenting the last day of a best friend in our lives

There will be so much things to think after you read these lines, first of all, I want to apologize since I don’t have the original link or post from the author. So, if you can find or happen to see the original post, just tell me and I will add it up to my post as a ref. Thank you!

Animals or not, for me they are the same with us, full of emotion and love. I know that in Vietnam and Korean or Thailand, we are having a bad culture of eating dog meat…for me, this is a crime and need to be stopped. In this post, we will see many beautiful moment between this owner and her dog. So much things to say….so much tears…you may think I am immature and just cry like a baby, that will be okay because through all the stories, I can feel the pain and the desire of holding time for not let her dog away from her and family.

Snapchat stories documenting the last day of a dying Dog turns everyone into a bucket of emotions

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What Is Love and Missing Each Other?

Recently, the sky in my city is turn  into something quite sad with its heavy rain. People is starting to rush toward their home, but at the end of the day, we are stuck in the middle of traffic jam. There is no way back and completely fill up with people on every street. So I head to my girl’s home, which is not far much from my location. The only thing that stuck in my head for this whole evening is my girl, since I have no idea whether she’s back or not, yet I wanna make sure that everything is okay for her. People might say that it is crazy and waste of time because I should go home and let my girl take care of her life, but guess what, I couldn’t do it and there is no particular reason for me to say no to her.

There was a time that I believed there will be no way I could fall in love and feel so fragile , so vulnerable again. But then, life is always full of surprises because those things come to me once again between me and my babe. I know this bloody feeling run through my spine and rush my heart beat by any seconds whenever I say goodbye to her. I always hate that moment, the moment when I have to say goodbye to her and give a big hug, so afraid of losing everything in this love.

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I did asked about her feeling if I love her like this…does she feel anything like uncomfortable or stuff like that. Her smiles and kiss on my lips were her answers…”there will be no love like yours, I love everything from you and anything that you did for us”

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A Positive Mind Must Be Learnt

I know it might sounds crazy, but for the last more than 6 years in living without a positive mind, made me like a mad man and tough to deal with. At the beginning, there was no reason at all for me to cheers about something, think about good sides of someone; everything is dark and hard to trust. In this time, trust and luck are really something that I was strongly believe that such a thing didn’t exist in my Wold of living. Along the way, my characteristics were strange, unfriendly and always had a deadly cold eyes since I didn’t want people to come and hang around.

Then, I met my girl, one of the most beautiful and lovely woman that I’ve ever seen in my life. For the very first time I could understand myself, my inner feelings toward to her that it seems like I found trust again and what people so call: happiness and luck.Our characteristics are very different, exactly like what you could find in “Man from Mars and Woman from Venus”. At some points, I don’t have enough courage to expose myself with these new feelings, but from time, she showed me what needs to be done and how should I think about something, more importantly is how to act and think with a positive mind. Until now, I can work and live a happier life more than ever before, it is not because I read something out of the book or learnt from a movie, but from my relationship, I spend more time with my better half on education, vacation, explore new places and even face into our fears together. Into those things, there are goals and opportunities for me to know more about myself, a trail to follow and expose my positive mind onto something. These are the sense of accomplishment, courage to go after new goals, and lasting increased confidence

Some fears maybe even hindering you professionally. Those fears might be real or not, it doesn’t matter, the moment I chose to do it, I knew that something will be there and wait for me. Use these techniques when I want to do something different in my life or to set a goal for personal growth. Embrace the uncertainties that I have to face, and have the confidence which I can handle whatever comes my way. These are my own milestones to grow myself up from negative mind, how about yours?

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Because We Are All Living & Sharing

Sometimes we do need our own time, of being ourselves and take a deep breath, look into the sky and wonder: how did I spend my life through all this time? How do I think about my job? How about my relationship with my beloved one or friends?

First of all, I wanna say a big sorry to my fans on WordPress, since my work load is raising recently and the Internet signal was not strong enough for me to connect to WordPress server and log in. But I did take sometimes like this period to chill out and think more about myself whenever I could, since we know that we are all living in a fast moving World. So, what did I do? As usual, I questioned my own with those questions above because they are my core things and of course, my vision of the person that I want to become.

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Until now, I have worked with more than 10 great people with unique personality that I never ever could imagine to be able to work with them before. Each of them bring out the best of me, lots of things to learn and apply, throwing parties of each month which we had a birthday of someone in this little family. Since we are back from Singapore trip, our bonds are stronger and we do cherish the time of working as a team. But then, everything is always happens for a reason, my company is changing its business direction into a new one. At the end of the day, one after one, they left and on top of that is we are learning from each other again, but this time is not about skills or anything related to work, rather than relationship and time of understand each other’s dream.

I am one of the 3 old members can stay with this new direction because we are able to work under tied schedule and do lots of research in English, plus that we are interesting in this particular field. Even though my company is in a gloomy working atmosphere, which is really different from before, we did managed to help each other stand up and find another job with head hunters and through networking. It is hard to see one by one left the company, somehow we know that one door closed is another open…but still, we want to move on together and stay under one roof.

 

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Singapore Trip (Part 2)

There is nothing can compare or describe my feeling when having more than 20 people entered Changi Airport successfully. Honestly, I couldn’t sleep the day before the trip because I kept thinking if someone left behind or something will happen during the trip, there were a long list of “IF” from my head.

The night we spent in Changi Airport was full of fun and so many strange feelings deep down inside from my friend’s heart, because that was their first time ever which flew out of Vietnam and saw so much things that they could only search through the Internet. But there was one thing that I missed out: blanket and sleeping travel eye-patch. How could I totally forgot about those two things in people’s memo? It was a night like 3 years ago since I knew that cold so well like an old friend of mine, but this time I wouldn’t be like that alone.

So this was how I spent the night, pretty cool and fun since we did found out that Terminal 3 was the most beautiful place. It was easy to understand since we were all cold and not used to the place, so in the end, we gathered around and tagged along in the terminal. By waiting for the rest to wake up and ready for the next day’s trip, we instructed the next place where we would had a breakfast: Toast Box with its very traditional food – Kaya Toast. At first, my friends tended to order something beside toast but after that I realized that there was only one dish stood out…Moving around is quite tired for people who come first time in Singapore, lots of stuffs and fast moving environment would cause some traumatic and dizzy. So we decided to call the landlord and rest first rather than threw ourselves inside the Marina Reservoir.

In the evening, we went to China Town and be treated by stalls with special dishes around this area. It was amazing, we were all enjoyed the view and even blended well inside Clarke Quay, where people are usually party all night long during Friday and weekend. The very first day in Singapore was planned according to my intention, get used to the living style and bewared of how different between Vietnam and here.

 

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Singapore Trip (Part 1)

After 3 years of leaving Singapore, I returned to Vietnam and push myself so hard to prove that I am capable of doing things in any job that I can enroll in. It seems like my 2nd new-beloved family was giving another chance of returning to this beautiful place, where I have learnt everything that I need to be standout and be able to live by myself.

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During my internship program, I did quite a good job on handling the tasks and developing my own skills into another new level, but then, all of the sudden that came out of nowhere, my bosses called my over into the meeting room and asked me “How do you feel about this job?” I thought that it is normal to raise that question before my period is going to an end soon enough. My heart was raced a little bit but it was outta control since they called another 3 staffs inside the room, then this happened: We knew that our Company’s Trip in Da Lat last time was a cool experience, but this time, we will go to somewhere else, over the sea.

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So we had to guess what was that place, all of our thoughts were about Con Dao, Phu Quoc and stuff like that, the answer was a “No”, then by the time I think about that place, our bosses said it would be Singapore. And the reasons why were we had to learn and see how we can change our ways of working together, how do we feel about push ourselves out of the comfort zone and take real closer look besides of pictures, films about Singapore. This was an opportunity for all of members from my company to see the most beautiful and advanced country by the name of “Dragon of the Southeast Asia”.

Therefore, everybody in that room on the day, we were selected as members who were going to organize this trip from the very first step until the end of it. You wanna know my true feeling? Of course, happy and worry and way much more than that. How do you plan to take all of these people to Singapore without leaving anyone behind? Furthermore, more than half of the company is never ever step outside of Vietnam before, which means that they are having no passport, and really then, we ONLY have 1 MONTH to prepare everything.

Looking for my experience of organizing things, along with my feelings? Wait and see, maybe it will not be so great or magnificent like yours, but hey, this is my VERY FIRST experience of how to organize a trip to another country for 20 people and more. Please note that, you can always ask me question in comments below, then I will try to answer it with my story.

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Be Happy Be Yourself Be Responsible

Some people say that love is hard and harsh sometimes, happiness and relationship are like something out of the blue and drive people crazy about it, make them feel up and down all the time. But then, what would you gonna do about it? Run away or accept the way it is? Neither of them will depends on your decision, but for now, I will put down some notes for my own and maybe this time with these notes, you can find something useful for yourself and your partner too.

To Become Happy & Earn Some Respect: Be Responsible

That’s right! Something that you will find it funny and nothing relate to happiness but then, think about when is the last time you decide and take action on something? How do you feel about it when everything’s finished by your own thoughts and steps? Every first step might be hard for you, of course, but don’t let this stop you from becoming someone who is willing to step forward, look into things and decide what to do about it rather than sit back and relax, wait for it to be ended by someone else.

It is good to chill out and we will find it really happy at first…then people will start to look at us with a disappointed eye or worst, because they know that somehow we are not interesting in anything, or willing to do anything. The relationship will getting worse from time, and we start to notice that no one will like to talk or share things to us. Don’t let this happen, one day we will sing “Lonely! I’m Mr. Lonely! I have no body!”

Live in the Moment

Every moment is fleeting, and our time on this earth is short. Everything that we experience is only temporary; nothing lasts forever. Be focus on what you are doing, and what you can do to enhance the situation to workout in your favor. Getting comfortable during times of peace isn’t a suitable practice. Letting your motivation down won’t bring any good for you later on. Always upholding the beauty of every moment, and build for the future today, your own future and be responsible with every single steps you have made.